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Virtual counseling & coaching · Florida + nationwide

I’ve spent twelve years chasing storms. I know they pass.

Licensed clinical therapy and personal coaching for adults working through addiction and recovery, grief, family patterns, and the long, foggy aftermath of long COVID — led by Aman Singh, LCSW.
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  • LCSW · licensed clinical social worker
  • DSW candidate · Tulane University
  • 3,000+ hrs clinical training
  • Fully virtual practice

Addiction & Recovery
Family & Codependency
Grief & Complex Trauma
Long-COVID Adjustment
Trauma-Informed Care
Addiction & Recovery
Family & Codependency
Grief & Complex Trauma
Long-COVID Adjustment
Trauma-Informed Care

Aman Singh

LCSW · Founder

The clinician / the human

Twenty years sober. Twelve years chasing tornadoes. Three thousand hours of clinical training. One very good excuse to talk about the weather in session.

Aman QS is an LCSW with a BA/BS in psychology and sociology from Wayne State University and an MSW from the University of Southern California, where she specialized in mental health and military social work. She’s currently completing a Doctorate in Social Work at Tulane.Since 2018 she’s held roles at the Hazelden Betty Ford Foundation as an SUD counselor, clinical trainer, and family services professional — all centered on treating addiction and rebuilding family systems around recovery. She has also facilitated a complex trauma and grief group at Valerie’s House for ten years, taught chemical dependency as an adjunct professor, and trained across CBT, DBT, ACT, EMDR, and the Duluth Model.Outside of session, she fosters pugs, drives toward supercells other people drive away from, and brings the same humor and mindfulness to both.
Sober since March 2026
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Storm chasing, Tornado Alley
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Pugs fostered, 15 years
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Two ways to work together

Counseling and coaching aren’t the same thing — here’s the difference.

For Florida residents

Counseling

Licensed clinical therapy, in-network or private pay, for anyone living in Florida.


  • Individual therapy, virtual sessions via Zoom

  • Addiction, recovery & family/codependency work

  • Grief, complex trauma & life transitions

  • In-network via Headway & Tava, or private pay


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Open to out-of-state clients

Coaching

Personal coaching, private pay, available anywhere — no diagnosis, no state lines.


  • Family addiction & mental health coaching

  • Codependency-focused coaching

  • Long-COVID adjustment coaching

  • Flexible virtual scheduling, nationwide


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Not sure which fits? Book a free 15-minute consult and we’ll figure it out together.Where I focus

Built from twenty years spent in the field,not just the classroom.

Addiction & recovery

Grounded in years at the Hazelden Betty Ford Foundation, treating alcoholism and addiction and rebuilding family support around recovery.

Family & codependency

Working with families and couples to untangle codependent patterns and rebuild healthier ways of showing up for each other.

Grief & complex trauma

Ten years facilitating a complex trauma and grief group at Valerie’s House, a nonprofit dedicated to grief and loss.

Long-COVID adjustment

Support for the lasting, disorienting effects of long COVID — including the loss of smell and taste, from personal experience.

Storms of life — the blog, coming soon

Field notes from twelve years of chasing storms, and twenty of surviving them.

Fully virtual

Sessions held over Zoom

Headway & Tava

In-network insurance options

Private pay

Welcome for both services

Service area

FL counseling · nationwide coaching

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Ready to stop bracing for the next storm?


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